Change Can Be Scary-Opening

Craving change, but fearing it at the same time.

Not everyone talks about it, and that’s okay, but because I’m going through a massive shift right now, I decided to take you on the journey with me. For the longest time, I have been hoping and praying for something to change in my life, and have dreamt about the woman I’ve always wanted to be. However, I never thought about the steps and journey I would have to take to get me there, only the destination. Dreaming of being one of the best authors, balancing my writing career along with my fashion career, and being able to do it all while still having time for my personal life.

I must say dreaming is easier than taking action, and don’t lie, WE ALL THINK IT! Lately, I’ve noticed patterns in myself that I haven’t really paid attention to before. The way I speak, the way I dress, my social groups, and even my interests. I’ve outgrown my environment, and all of a sudden, I want to start somewhere new. My point is that we all crave change at some point in our lives, and maturing is realizing we have to take the necessary steps to get what we know we deserve.

This can be a little bit messy, but I wanted to start this blog not only for me, but for the women who are currently going through a change. We might not be going through the same situation or wishing for the same things, but we can all be there and support one another. I’m not here to be perfect, I’m here to be real.

This is the first chapter in my book, and it can also be the first chapter in yours as well. I want you to start documenting videos or photos of your journey, whether it’s today or tomorrow; these are the memories you want to look back on.

That way, they won’t just be words on a page, they’ll be Living Chapters.